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In shortSlow, agreed touch can help a child notice their body, as long as they know what will happen and can say stop.

The idea

Predictable, agreed touch gives the body slow signals that are easy to follow. It can help the child notice their body and link what they feel to what is happening. It works best when the child knows what will happen and can say stop.

How to start

  • Start at home, with short touches the child chooses (hands, shoulders).
  • Say beforehand what you will do and how long it lasts.
  • Ask afterwards where they felt it and what it was like.

What to look for

What to look for: practitioners experienced with children, who explain each step and respect it when the child says stop.

The common mistake

Persisting when the touch is not welcome.

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